I plead with Euodia and . . . Syntyche to be of the same mind in the Lord. Philippians 4:2
Four of our grandkids were playing with a miniature train set, and the younger two were arguing over an engine. When our eight-year-old grandson began to intervene, his six-year-old sister stated, “Don’t worry about their business.” Wise words for us all—usually. But when the argument turned to tears, Grandma stepped in, separated, and comforted the squabbling children.
It’s good to stay out of others’ business when doing so could make matters worse. But sometimes we need to prayerfully get involved. In his letter to the Philippians, the apostle Paul provides an example of when to do so. Here he urges two women, Euodia and Syntyche, “to be of the same mind in the Lord” (4:2). Apparently, their disagreement had become so intense that the apostle felt compelled to intervene (v. 3), even though he was imprisoned (1:7).
Paul knew the women’s argument was causing disunity and taking focus away from the gospel. So, he gently spoke the truth while reminding them that their names were written “in the book of life” (4:3). Paul wanted these women and everyone in the church to live as God’s people in thought and actions (vv. 4-9).
When you’re unsure if you should get involved, pray, trusting that “the God of peace will be with you” (v. 9; see v. 7).
Philippians 4:1-9
Closing Appeal for Steadfastness and Unity
4 Therefore, my brothers and sisters, you whom I love and long for, my joy and crown, stand firm in the Lord in this way, dear friends!
2 I plead with Euodia and I plead with Syntyche to be of the same mind in the Lord. 3 Yes, and I ask you, my true companion, help these women since they have contended at my side in the cause of the gospel, along with Clement and the rest of my co-workers, whose names are in the book of life.
Final Exhortations
4 Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! 5 Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. 6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
8 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. 9 Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.
INSIGHT
1. When have you recently stepped into an argument or disagreement, and what was the result?
2. How does seeking God’s leading affect how you handle conflict?
Whether to get involved in other people’s business is a tricky issue. Paul pleaded with “Euodia and . . . Syntyche to be of the same mind in the Lord,” and he asked his “true companion” to help them (Philippians 4:2-3). In 1 Thessalonians 5, the apostle gives some practical instructions on this topic, which include these important words: “Live in peace with each other. . . . Warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone” (vv. 13-14). The desire to live in peace with others doesn’t necessarily exclude getting involved in their lives. Paul’s verbs are strong—warn, encourage, help, be patient. They imply that we sometimes need to remind others of the truths of the Bible. Implementing this good counsel calls for great wisdom, discernment, and reliance on the Holy Spirit.
PRAYER
Dear God, please give me the wisdom to know when to get involved and provide me with the words to say to bring healing and unity. In Jesus name I pray and believe. Amen.
Read: Philippians 4:1-9 | Bible in a Year: Jeremiah 40-42; Hebrews 4
